Saturday, February 04, 2012
 

The confusing emotions a woman feels following an abortion can leave her feeling anxious, scared and fearful. She may attempt to repress her feelings, avoid people or situations that remind her of the abortion, become withdrawn, or use alcohol or drugs in order to escape her feelings. A widely used term for emotional problems that develop as a consequence to abortion is “post abortion syndrome” or PAS. If you feel you may be experiencing PAS, call our 24 hour help-line or Alternatives Pregnancy Center for help in dealing with these emotions.

Post-Abortion Syndrome - Post Abortion Stress Checklist

The following checklist may help you identify symptoms in your life that may be related to a past abortion experience. Please select the symptoms that may pertain to you:

  • Sadness or feelings of depression
  • Feelings of loss
  • Guilt/Regret
  • Crying episodes
  • Anxiety
  • Recurring thoughts about the abortion
  • Inability to maintain an intimate relationship
  • Preoccupation with anniversaries (i.e. date of abortion or due date)
  • Obsession with children or child-bearing issues
  • Avoidance babies or small children
  • Increased alcohol use or drug abuse
  • Nightmares/flashbacks
  • Repeat abortions
  • Engage in one of the following in excess: school, work, eating, dieting
  • Multiple sexual relationships
  • Difficulty sleeping
  • Feelings of numbness
  • Lack of self-esteem
  • Suicidal impulses
  • Desire for secrecy about the abortion
  • Disinterest in sex
  • Relationship issues

If you checked any of the symptoms, you may be experiencing Post Abortion Stress.

Men Who Chose Abortion

The guilt and burden of a man who's pressured a woman into abortion, is unbearable at times. They feel guilty for their sexual irresponsibility and feel unforgivable for pushing the woman to take the life of their child. Even if abortion was in a previous relationship, it can be divisive to later marriage/s.

Friends and Family

Other men, siblings, grandparents, friends, etc. are left to handle the "aftermath" of an abortion when they did not want the abortion chosen by the woman.  Maybe they tried to talk the mother out of the abortion, or found out afterward that she had made the choice without their knowledge. These people are touched by the abortion experience as well. They deserve to grieve the loss of that child, as much as the woman who laid on the table.

ALTERNATIVES PREGNANCY CENTER provides opportunities for abortion recovery counseling through our FREE and CONFIDENTIAL abortion recovery program. Our counselors are trained specifically to handle post abortion issues. Most of our counselors have personally experienced an abortion themselves, or been involved in someone else's choice.

Forgiven & Set Free Bible Study

This 12-week Bible study is for women who have had an abortion in the past and are struggling with the aftermath. Women are often burdened with feelings of guilt, shame, regret, loss, and are in need of support from others who can relate. This group focuses on the everlasting grace of God and the forgiveness He offers us as we seek Him whole-heartedly. Pease call Alternatives if you are interested in this study.

 (319) 232-5683

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